If you are seeking wisdom, ask God for it! God has promised to give us wisdom - just read James 1 if you don't believe me.
Abraham Lincoln - "I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go. My own wisdom and that of those about me seemed insufficient for the day."
I have found the following 3 steps helpful in my life:
ASK God.
PRAY through your decision.
ACT in faith.
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Living in Grace is written by Delme Linscott, a minister and author. Delme's first book was 'Living Oceans Apart’ and he has just completed his second which is called 'Now: Refuse to let the moment pass.' You can find out more on www.livingingrace.co.za